Many of the most important axes of discussions connected to family and moral resistance are organized around two related issues, that is, sexuality and gender. The theorists of these issues often organize their discussions by considering the developments of western societies and rejecting those changes and events. A more recent step in cultural developments is now organized towards the dissolution of the concept of "gender" itself. Targeting this central concept leads to more extensive damages than the past injuries and overshadows the previous identity foundations that created discipline and sexual ethics. Therefore, discussions for transferring the conflict to the principle of the existence of natural sexuality and the tendency to neutralizing it, urges us to show our objection to this issue. So, essentialism is important and strategic in gender theory. This study, by reflecting on various spectrums of essentialism, aims to formulate the gender theory that was developed in the core of Islamic Revolution’s teachings and actions, and examine its relationship with the resistant family.